How most of us thought our 30's and 40's would be probably has changed drastically. The idea of being married, a career we thought we would want and making a family. Has it really happened like that? Nah.
Most of my friends aren't married, if they have kids they are doing it without a 2 parent home and making it work. Some never want to be homeowners, they have condo's. A lot of people love to talk about being married to who you have kids with as if that saves you from not having a good relationship, as if it guarantees a healthy partnership, honesty, empathy and protection against divorce. Come to find out at least 72% of people are single parents in their marriage these days. Also do not be fooled by what people show you on TikTok or IG... most people are living on Credit cards and scamming companies with checks that bounce.
My point is whatever ya idea was and now is... fcuk et!!!!
Live ya life and do what works for you. Personally I want acres of land, a lot for truckers to pay me to store their truck, first home I would love to air BnB it or rent it out. Eventually putting my money towards the home I want to build. I don't have a time frame or a deadline for how I live or my coochie. If you have a vision for your life and the people you thought will be there aint... Do you, focus on what brings you joy. Everybody's plan aint gotta be yours. Travel, pray and mind ya business. We have to grow up as people, stop looking at others peoples lives as the template if it ain't yo steez.
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